Excerpts from the Book
The Story Theater Method
For Strategic Storytelling In Business
Author: Doug Stevenson
“The techniques you’re about to learn are like dance steps and they’re the same steps for everybody. All you have to do is follow the directions.”
“But when I said those magic words, “let me tell
you a story about a customer that I had…” and I began telling a personal story,
they all looked up and paid attention. They were right there with me hanging on
every word. The only thing I can relate it to is a school of fish. You know how
an entire school of fish turns left and then right and then left again at the
same time as if they all have one brain? Like they are all one? Well the minute
I started telling my story, it was as if we were all one. All of a sudden and
without warning - we were connected.”
“Strategic storytelling is just that – strategic. Business stories are verbal
tools designed to be used in a specific situation for a specific purpose. Their
utility is dependent on making a point that is congruent with the story and the
audience’s needs. If the point of the story does not address the issue the
audience is facing, what’s the point?”
“An imbroglio is defined as an acutely painful misunderstanding or embarrassing
situation. Think of a time when you unwittingly found yourself in deep trouble,
and you have the makings for an intriguing imbroglio story. Ironically, some of
your funniest stories will come from your most humiliating moments. Imbroglio
stories allow us all to be comedians.”
“A principle requirement of connection is our
willingness to be vulnerable. Stories let us let our guard down. They let people
in the room know we are willing to self-reveal. Wisdom is the accumulated
knowledge of our life. It is by sharing this wisdom through first-person stories
that people relate to us.”
“Stories move people from their head to their heart and back again. If you can
connect emotion
to information, you can motivate your listeners to change their behavior.”
“Story Theater is a synthesis of the practical and theatrical. It is a
methodology that allows you to teach without seeming preachy, entertain without
being artificial, and inspire without being evangelistic.”
“When training people, a story is the best way to help employees “grasp” an
abstract concept. It helps them “buy into” a new idea or initiative. The story
brings an intellectual idea into the “real world” so they “get” it. Listeners
“see” what you’re saying and visualize it - which means they internalize it
instead of just hearing it.”
“I believe that the messenger is as important as the message. The messenger is
the vehicle through which the communication is transmitted to the audience. If
the messenger is not confident and comfortable with his or her genuine self, the
transmission of the message will not be successful.”
“Drama is about telling the truth. It requires that we remove the mask of
superficiality and appropriately reserved social behavior and let people see and
feel our most intimate private behavior. It is about giving voice to the inner
world of thoughts and feelings.”
“Speakers that are compelling and memorable use four types of language. They
are:
“Emotional language is a wordless form of
communication that everyone, regardless of gender, race, or nationality,
understands and responds to. Is it possible for the heart to see and hear? Does
it speak a language like no other? I believe it does. In this chapter we’ll
explore seven forms of emotional language.”
“When you “embody” a story and immerse yourself in re-living it, you bring
everyone in the room along. Instead of being preoccupied, distracted, or bored,
people can’t help but listen with every fiber of their being. They are caught up
in the spell of the story and are “one” with the speaker.”
“In short, Strategic Storytelling using The Story Theater MethodTM is a recipe
for ‘communication charisma.’ You take a pint of important information, add a
dash of organization and logic, include a cup of genuine emotion, provide two
chances for meaningful participation, and Viola!, you’ve created a concoction of
longed-for connection that engages everyone in the room.”
“There is a diamond within you waiting to be polished and I’m calling on you to
stop showing up in your life looking like a rhinestone. Story Theater is about
polishing the diamond that is already there.”